Ukwabelana ngesondo ebusheni bunemiba evuyisayo: imizimba emihle kumaqabane amabini, ukukhululeka okukhulu, ukuzimisela ukunceda, nakumbandela wokunciphisa uxinzelelo lwezesondo. Lo dade wabona ukuba umnakwabo uqaqadekile, ephelelwa ngumoya, waza ke wagqiba kwelokuba amunyise aze amvumele amteketise. Ekugqibeleni bavuswa, baqala ukukhwela ekhitshini kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo.
Utata uqinisekile ukuba uyakhawuleza - wangena waza wagebenga iintombi zakhe njengamahenyukazi. Kodwa ke kwakhona - unoxanduva lokukhuliswa kwabo, ngoko ke unelungelo kuyo. Bade bajonge nomgca wokuba bangenise intshontsho labo. Amahula afuna uluntu, nawo, kwaye unokubafundisa ukuba baphile kakuhle. Kwaye ndicinga-uphumelele. Ndiyabona ukuba basebenze ngokucokisekileyo ikuku yakhe kwaye bayonwabela xa ebambe imilomo yabo evulekileyo.