Ewe, ooninawa kunye noodadewabo abazalani kwaphela, ngoko ayinakugqalwa njengento embi okanye engafanelekanga. Akumangalisi ukuba umfana omdala kunye nentombazana, ngaphandle kwamaqabane aqhelekileyo ngokwesondo kwaye phantse yonke imihla ejikeleze enye kwenye, ngequbuliso waziva enomdla kwinqanaba lezesondo omnye komnye. Ukuqwalasela ukuba intombazana iyayithanda (umfana ngoko akukho mbuzo), ndicinga ukuba baya kuqhubeka beqhuba olu hlobo lwento ngamaxesha.
Unjingalwazi wakudala useyi-chipper! Malunga nobudala bakhe ngaphandle kokuba ulusu lubonisa, kwaye ke isixhobo sisebenza kwaye sisebenze njengoko kufanelekile. Oku akuzange kube mnandi ngokukodwa kumfundi, kodwa yintoni onokuyenza, ukuba akafuni ukufunda. Bekufanele ukuba ebeyicingile le nto kwangethuba, kungenjalo bekufuneka adibane nabanye abantu ngokuthatha iiproteni kunye neeproteni ezisuka kubantu abakrelekrele ngokungxamisekileyo. Kulungile, isemester okanye ezimbini kwaye uya kuba nesantya.