Ividiyo enezinongo, akukho nto yakuthetha. Nangona kukho into engaqhelekanga kolu hlobo, ngakumbi xa unesithukuthezi ngohlobo olufanayo lwabadlali be-porn abancinci, ngandlela thile bayakhawuleza ukuyiqhela kwaye bajonge njengabadala. Kodwa abafazi abaqolileyo bahlala bebukeka benomdla ngakumbi kwisakhelo kwaye baziphathe ngendlela ekhethekileyo, bakhulule, kodwa oku kukhululeka kunye nokuvuleka kuyabafanela.
Andiqondi ukuba kubi ngokwaneleyo ukwenza ukuzanelisa. Ndingakulungela ukumfaka kwindawo yomntwana-iesile lisabonakala linomtsalane kakhulu. Kwaye amabele ahexayo, intamo eshwabeneyo kunye nobuso obugugileyo abubonakali.